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在三度經歷水深火熱的 NY Bar 考試後，終於有機會寫下上榜的心得文…心中百感交集

When I was a kid, I watched the Singaporean movie series I Not Stupid with my family. Ever since then, Singapore has been a country defined by its strictness and organization in my mind. However, I never had the chance to visit until recently. Most people I knew described it as a boring place, only worth a single, one-time trip.

Now I’m sitting at the desk in my childhood room, the same one I’ve lived in for over 20 years. After two years in the United States, it feels surreal to be back in my parents’ home.

It’s been two months since I lost my AirPods in Miami and wrote about it. The good news is, they were shipped back to me just a week later! I’ve been hesitant to write this update because I wanted to put the whole ordeal behind me and move on. But after telling the story of how I got them back to my friends so many times, I realized it was a story worth sharing. Hopefully, it can help someone else in the future when they face a seemingly impossible situation.

Today is my third day in Miami. Before finding my AirPods missing this morning, I was telling everyone how great the city is: good food, clean streets, almost no visible homelessness, and even free public transportation!

Before traveling to Toronto with my boyfriend last week, he, having lived there from ages two to seven, confidently declared it “basically New York City.” He even claimed many movies seemingly set in NYC were actually filmed in Toronto. I was skeptical until our air train ride when someone held the door for his friends, a familiar scene in NYC subway. Ironically, that helpful person actually turned out from NYC, leaving me still curious whether Toronto’s true identity.

Growing up in Taiwan, the whole concept of “prom” was a bit foreign to me. We didn’t have that tradition of fancy dresses, the awkward process of finding a date, or the exclusive “invitation only” after-prom beach party. So when my boyfriend first told me about his high school prom experience, or rather, his lack thereof, I found it both amusing and incredibly sweet.

I want to be open with you all about something that has become an integral part of my writing process: I’m using AI to help craft my blog posts. Some of you might have noticed this through occasional unusual phrasing or tone. While I’m actively learning to refine my prompts to avoid this, I’m also genuinely hoping for your insights.

Waking up and realizing I had turned 29 felt a little unreal. There’s a subtle shift that comes with getting older, even while still in my twenties. What I mean by “feeling older” isn’t negative; it’s a growing self-awareness, a clearer sense of what truly serves me and what doesn’t, and most importantly, what I genuinely want.

Tomorrow marks my 29th birthday! Even though I know everyone has their own timeline, I’m still nervous because it will be my last 365 days before my 30s begin.

I know people usually wonder, “Why do so many Taiwanese people have English names?” I’d love to explain why I want, and probably need, one.

Last night, my boyfriend and I went to “The Jury Experience: An Immersive Courtroom Case.” As a lawyer, I’ve always known that serving on a jury in real life is highly unlikely for me. So, when my boyfriend suggested this show, my immediate answer was a resounding “yes.” We secured Zone A seats, arriving early to make sure we have central seats. (Tips: Early arrival allows you to choose your preferred seating within your zone.)

My departure from NYC has been a busy one, but I couldn’t leave without participating in one last AABANY pro bono clinic. It was essential to say goodbye to the wonderful lawyers and volunteers I’ve had the pleasure of working with.

If you’re about to begin your LL.M. journey in the United States—congrats! It’s going to be intense, exciting, and transformative. I’m sharing a few things I wish I had known before starting, based on my own experience and what I’ve learned from friends and classmates.

The greatest thing about living in NYC for me is that you can often enjoy world-class performances at an affordable price. Here are the platforms and tricks I use to consistently find great deals:

Let’s face it! If you’re in your late 20s or early 30s, finding a serious relationship in this digital age can feel overwhelming. With work, information explosion, and global lifestyles like digital nomadism, meaningful connection is harder than ever. I’ve always been fascinated by human relationships (honestly, I’d love to build an AI tool to help people find love one day), and these are a few lessons I’ve learned along the way.

I’ve now spent a full year in this wild, exciting, and chaotic city.

I’ve studied law since I was 18. For most of my adult life, my world has been filled with statutes, codes, and legal doctrines. I never thought I would build a website by myself, but here I am.